Mark out a straight path for your feet.
Then those who follow you,
though they are weak and lame,
will not stumble and fall but will become strong
Chapter 1
The Real Nature of Things
— something beyond meaninglessness
Mum did not live to see the dawn of this new millennium, but her example remains, inspiring those of us who knew her. Mum bequeathed to us a tantalizing sense of something beyond this present society’s worldview– this orthodoxy of meaninglessness and its consuming pursuit of materialism. So we begin our walk through a new era with an inherited sense of anticipation and a transcendent hope. We, Isaac and Rebecca, would like to share this lively optimism, this sustaining encouragement....
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Chapter 2
The Day of the Gypsy
— ideas have consequences
One day after classes, my friends and I were at our favorite cafe drinking the local white wine
flavored with a liqueur of black currents and carrying on as college students do, when a Gypsycame over to our table, sat down beside me and poured himself a glass from our carafe. He looked me in the
eye and asked in French, “Are you happy?”
Immediately I was lost in my inner self, considering a thousand thoughts and weighing my emotional bag of feelings. I don’t know how long I zoned out, away from the table, the café, the world, as my thoughts
raced around my interior universe. But the next thing I knew, the Gypsy put his hand on my arm, saying, “You are too complicated.” He finished his drink, got up and left.
It was true….
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Chapter 3
Pursuing Happiness?
— discover Hope!
Have you formed an opinion about what it takes to be happy?
According to the poet Ogden Nash the root of happiness springs from an absence of nagging guilty feelings. Nash observed that there were only a limited number of ways that we can comfortably recline
on our favorite mental easy chair: “There is only one way to achieve happiness on this terrestrial ball. And that is to have either a clear conscience; or none at all.”
From that perspective one could opt to follow an Adolf Hitler or a Mother Teresa and still achieve an acceptable amount of happiness.
Is that right?…
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Chapter 4
Falling Prey to Demons?
— violence begins in the mind
Would you consider a dramatic presentation of the Anne Frank story to be funny?
One Friday afternoon my oldest son came home after a hard day at the local
public school visibly upset.
“What’s the matter?” I asked.
He hemmed and hawed for a moment and then quietly said, “We
were watching a video about Anne Frank [the young Jewish-Dutch girl
who tried to hide from the Nazis during the Second World War]. And during a scene
that showed the Nazis machine-gunning a group of prisoners lined up against a wall,
a bunch of the kids in class started laughing!”
I was shocked, but decided to probe for the facts before jumping to
conclusions….
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Chapter 5
Kick that Black Dog!
— overcoming depression
Muzzling the black dog’s bite?
Yes it can be done. We want to encourage those who may feel trapped, worthless, or alone and without relief in sight.
You, too, can climb out of your pit of misery with the proper mental tools and a lifeline – if you’ll only reach out and grab them.
A few decades ago I, Rebecca, fell into the black hole of depression and stayed there for a number of years. Eventually I found my way out and emerged to see the light once more.
But then, recently, that black dog returned again to hound me back into the pit, though I thought I had seen the last of him….
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Chapter 6
A Good Marriage
— your loving oasis
The cynics about marriage have long abounded. One of these wags once quipped:
“The best part of married life is the fights. The rest is merely so-so.”
In the past one could laugh at such a comment and then quickly dismiss it as coming from
a well-established but insignificant minority of conjugal misfits.
Such cantankerous misanthropes had no business getting married in the first place.
But, as we begin a new millennium, Rebecca and I have the sneaking suspicion that the marital cynics have prospered all too well during the latter half of the twentieth century.
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Chapter 7
Tame That Cheatin’ Heart!
— infidelity or intimacy
It took me more than a few minutes of poking around my Dad’s messy garage before I, Isaac,
found what I was looking for. The objects of my search were three, small, unwelcome suitcases.
They were scruffed up, cheap bags no doubt bought for a couple of bucks at some secondhand store. Upon their arrival at Dad’s place in Twin Falls, they were given a quick cursory examination and then
were banished to the garage’s ever-growing junk collection to await their eventual disposition, or more likely, their complete oblivion…
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Chapter 8
Someone to Share Your Dreams
— searching for a kindred spirit
When I was a sophomore at John B. Stetson University, I signed up for their junior year abroad program to study French in Neuchâtel, Switzerland. I roomed with two American guys at
the condo of a Swiss woman and her older daughter. French is widely known by us, North Americans, as the language of love and cursing (as in “excuse my French”). Nevertheless, I had to find
this out for myself, eh? When I went overseas I learned that our North American Puritan prejudices don’t hold sway very far beyond our New World shores.
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Chapter 9
Bring Back Daddy
— who is the father to the fatherless?
When today’s children longingly ask, “Where’s daddy?” the sad answer for too many millions of the Western world’s children is, “You never had a daddy!”
One day when walking about the sleepy provincial capital of Pointe a-Pitre on the French Caribbean island of Guadeloupe, I, Isaac, came across an agitated crowd of women spilling out of an office building and into the street. the noisy, catcalling crowd blocked much of the thoroughfare. The traffic attempting to pass was reduced to a crawl. Obscene gestures and words were being exchanged between the frustrated car drivers and the boisterous crowd…
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Chapter 10
It’s a Woman’s Choice
— become a woman of valour
My thoughts were punctuated by gentle stirrings, soft punches and padded kicks emanating from deep inside me. It was such an awesome experience, one not without fears. At my age it was not my choice to bear another child. I, Rebecca, was feeling more than stretched shepherding three school-age dynamos. But with the empathetic support of a thoughtful husband and the enthusiasm of three boys who wanted a baby sister, I would delight in what life served up…
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Chapter 11
The Girls Are In Pain
— trashed by a cultural whirlwind
Why are so many girls seeking psychological therapy at the dawn of the new millennium? What is the meaning of body piercings and tattoos? Are they just typical adolescent fads? Or are there deeper hidden motives influencing young people to willingly inflict pain on themselves?…Why are so many girls verbally aggressive and talking trash to parents, teachers, and peers? Why are the accounts of girls violently assaulting or even murdering others no longer so unusual…
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Chapter 12
Childhood Denied
— We’ve forgotten its true value
The trend in our civilization is one that is increasingly depriving children of their natural grace toward life!
Around the world, governments officially may say that they value and respect children and your average politician supports laws against child abuse. Nevertheless, the sad reality is that day by day youthful
millions are being exploited and abused, conditioned and manipulated by a toxic civilization that merely values them as fit commodities for a wide variety of selfish purposes. It seems we adults have forgotten the true value of childhood. So is it surprising that humanity’s childhood is commonly being denied today?
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Chapter 13
Beginnings and Endings
— a question of life or death
My first experiences with life and death came when I, Isaac, was a boy. My family raised hunting dogs, weimaraners. Those retrievers were amazing dogs… It was not unusual for us to have a dozen or more barking, scratching, panting, licking canines to frolic with on our many excursions. We loved our dogs and we always refused to sell our core of prized bitches.
However, raising any sort of animal or livestock has its hard moments, inescapable beginnings and endings. We treated our dogs as a valued part of our pack – worthy of good treatment and affection…but
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Chapter 14
Righting the Wrongs
— finding straight paths for life’s walk
The buzz of the chain saw next door had been on the fringes of my consciousness until Mrs. G, a widow, came knocking at my door. She wanted some help from me, Rebecca. It seemed that her college-age son had run into a little problem doing some yard work with a rented chain saw. The chain saw was, unfortunately, stuck and unless it could be freed shortly, Mrs. G emphasized, she would be unable to return the saw to the U-Rent store before incurring another day’s charge. Would my husband come and help?